modernyogi

Post structure

• Meaning of true love according to yogic philosophy.
• People are losing themself in the name of love causing misery and self-destruction
• Conclusion

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Meaning of true love according to the yogic philosophy

I would like to start with the words of Lord Krishna, He says through The Bhagavad Geeta ( one of the most ancient scriptures of the world ), “To love without condition, to talk without intention, To give without reason, care without expectation, that’s the spirit of true love“‘.

Bhagwat geeta

It simply means true love is regardless.

A yogi’s philosophy of love is very reasonable you can completely relate with the philosophy if you are in yoga because when you are in yoga you feel love within yourself. A yogi doesn’t seek or demand love from anyone because he is in love with himself or his soul or with the almighty. He seeks to give it back instead of taking it from outside and that is the true meaning of love when you believe in giving, giving, and giving regardless.

Everyone’s perception about love should be similar to that of a yogi’s way of love because what you are inside you seek outside if you are a full-fledged human being who is calm, contented, energetic, and enthusiastic you will find you don’t need love from outside you are in love you and always ready to just give it back to everyone regardlessly.

A yogi’s philosophy of love is free from bondage and returns. He doesn’t love because everyone is doing it or want it he loves because he is already in love. When you love in this way no one can break you or hurt you. Only this kind of love can give you true happiness and ecstasy where you expect less and give more.

People are losing themself in the name of love causing misery and self-destruction.

Most people are in love because of the influence of others they don’t see the thin line between attraction and love. Moreover, their attraction is also under the other’s influence. It is like I love it because everybody is doing it without knowing what it means. True love always takes you towards eternal peace and blissfulness, if not then it never be a true love.

The biggest lie is that love is a game of heart and it just happens automatically. True love involves freedom, devotion, and surrender and you can’t give these 3 things without using your mind and soul. Love starts with your mind, goes to the heart, and finally connects with your soul and becomes eternal. So not using your mind is crazy while you seek love. it’s like running insanely without knowing your destination. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. I see people make their marital decisions under the pressure of society, the influence of friends, the emotional trauma of their families.

Conclusion

True love should start with yourself because you can’t love anyone if you can’t love yourself. When you truly love yourself, you start talking to yourself, searching for the ways that make you happy, involving yourself, start thinking about the ultimate benefit of yourself. And what you do or think about yourself, the same you do for the rest of the others, you start understanding people and things when you do like that you will see things gradually become better.

If you are going through the misery and insecurity about the relationship which are ruining because the lack of love and understanding then Here are some practical tips I want you to apply in your daily life for 90 days and I am sure about that you will see the magical change in your inner and outer life.

1. Start doing meditation as soon as possible if you can’t then do an easy thing, just notice your breath inhale and exhale for 5 minutes in 24 hours.
2. Read at least a book in a week for 90 days. The topics should be ( yoga, spirituality, and self-help )
3. Start thinking from the other’s perspective. For e.g, if your loved ones are not behaving the way you want to put yourself in the place of your loved ones and think about what they want instead of what you want.
4. Learn the art of listening. ( most important); if you are listening properly to others that clearly shows you are giving importance to them. When you listen more, you observe more and when you observe more, you understand what they want.
5. Make them realize that you will always be with them no matter what are the situations.
6. Give them proper space, freedom, and privacy because these are the 3 basic things every individual soul needs to feel free in a true manner.

At last I leave you with the words of Christ;

Jesus himself said, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself. ”

(Matthew 22:37-39, ESV)

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